Your Divine & Diverse Destiny

“A Wandering Mind is a Magical Mind.” Tonyaism

Right now, we are being urged to pay attention to the Signs & Synchronicities around us for clues & messages from Spirit. The thing is, many are unable to Focus. We become multi tasking “Mavens & Masters” so it’s a “thing” creating lack (or slow moving) of energy flow and there is a positive side too! Being a child of the 70’s I’ve grown up with technology & innovation. Something new coming out DAILY once personal computers & cell phones became was the then “thing”. My first cell phone was nicknamed the “Brick” & I was last to switch to a flip style then Palm Pilot. Can you relate?

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I’ve learned to be a multi diverse & faceted Woman, Entrepreneur & Lightworker because I have allowed myself to have “Diversity in the Divine”. Having one or more passions, pursuits & purposes is what keeps me Inspired. Insightful & Innovative. Allowing myself the opportunity to “try out” new ideas led to focusing in on what I really loved. Instead of fighting against my natural flow & creative urges I embraced them. Many failed yet many are the foundation of my current projects. Similar to dating, you’ve got to see what you like & don’t like in another to understand yourself better. We’ve been so conditioned to believe we can only have one career, pursuit & passion yet research shows we are better served to accept our multiple talents, gifts & crafts. We live in an creative age, we are here to create! Instead of fighting to focus, free it.

What Passion, Pursuit or Purpose is emerging from within You?

Willing to try something different?  Learn “4 Ways to Use Your Magic.”

Read Here.

 

As Featured on DesireMap.com!

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My love of Tarot with my love for diving DEEP into Desire has placed me as a “Featured Case Study” on DesireMap.com 👀

It is an honor & privilege to be a part of the message of Desire Map with Soul Sister @daniellelaporte as-featured-on-desiremap-com
Words CANNOT express my GRATITUDE & LOVE 💜💚💛❤️💙

Be the Light of the Party

Now that the Holidays are in full swing the alcohol is flowing day and night, making it a time of many late nights & blurry mornings.

I used to spend just as much time planning my drinking as I did cooking & hosting. I always made sure there was enough to keep me at the “tipsy” point no matter happened or who said what. I was going to stay in my happy zone regardless.

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The truth is I allowed it to be my 2 week pass of over consuming then I’d start fresh on New Year’s Day like everyone else. I’d start with a few ciders while cooking and by the time dessert came, it was wine or whatever. This was a tradition. This is was my normal.

For the complete Huffington Post article, please visit & comment on the site

The Light of the Party – Enjoy the Holidays Consciously

 

Love & Light xo

 

The Call to Rise. Hear it?

“There is nothing you cannot do.” A Course in Miracles 

The time it takes to heal is a lot shorter than the time spent hurting, this I know for sure. When I decided to give up drinking alcohol it came from a place of deep surrender, a place where pain had set on my heart for too long.

As kids, we view our parents as idols, our God yet what we begin to discover often earlier than later is they are flawed. Once the shattered idea of our “perfect parents” is exposed, their flaws become our judgements. ANY thought you hold about another, including our parents, that does NOT bless or prosper is a judgement. All judgements serves to shine light YOU need to heal.

Like many of us, our parents had a different set of world views, experiences & challenges however, they still serve as our greatest teachers. My childhood included early sexual abuse, my mothers constant search for herself & a man to secure her future. Watching her I learned to be the opposite of EVERYTHING about her. It was clear by the time I was 11, she and I were not going to have typical mother daughter relationship. I was the Rebel. She was my enemy & I hers.

By the time I had my daughter at 19, her story flashed before me and I was determined to not end up like her. I got my own place and was out of “her house”. I finally had freedom or so I thought. I used alcohol like my mother used it, I had relationships like I had been taught & I never knew how to love myself until I was ready to take responsibility and stop using her story as the basis of My story.

Flash forward, I know Goddess gave me a daughter so I could learn to love her as her own individual expression of Spirit & myself.  It is with JOY I celebrate the relationship my daughter & I have. We’ve traveled the world together & she is TRULY my best friend. Both of our friends wonder & ask about our “special relationship”. It is special because it has taught me what love is, the opposite of fear. When I became a single mother myself, it was love that kept me in class, working jobs & in faith.img_6510-2

When I began doing the work to heal myself, it healed her as well and that is one of the blessings of Spirit. It has long been a dream for Miana & I to work together as we share the common purpose to serve. We’ve joked about it for years, but now we are THRILLED to actually do it! See, I did Desire Map by Danielle La Porte  (get your FREE lite edition here) then Miana did it. She loved it so much she even did a mini workshop at work!! Now we want to share our Love, Light & Healing with YOU!!

Now as a Desire Map Facilitator, I explore Core Desired Feelings with EVERY client. As we approach a new year, a new world and a new age, its time to do something NEW!

It is with pleasure I invite YOU & your Special Guest to join Miana & I to BEAM in 2017! Bring YOUR Life to Light and align your Goals with your Soul. We will spend 2.5 days immersed in Sisterhood & Spirit as we get clean, get clear & get READY! We must learn to love ourselves so we can love each other & the next generations. What we do now sets up my daughter’s children (not yet!) & beyond, allow 2017 be the beginning of the Age of Sheness.

Cyber Monday Deal thru  11/29/16  (New Moon in Sagittarius) receive as a BONUS for YOU & YOUR  Guest (over $1200 value)

  • Monthly “GLOW Gatherings” with Tonya &  Miana Melendez to support your 2017 “Goals with Soul”
  • Immediate access to our Facebook Community for Daily Support, Prayer & Love. 
  • Tarot & TruthBomb Reading (Recorded) 
  • Signed copy of my Amazon International Bestselling book, “Opening with Grace & Gratitude”
  • BONUS 1st Full Moon Ritual & Blessing (1/14/17)

  • Recordings of ENTIRE Retreat + MORE!

  • Gifts & Giveaways from our collaboration partners

  • Portion of Proceeds will be donated to She’s the First

Cyber Monday for ONLY $222! Save Your Seat here NOW!

($199 +33 for your guest) rate now thru 11/29/16 

Price increases Tuesday, Nov. 29, 2016 11:59pm to $222 (guest rate $40)

Give the gift that will keep on giving the ENTIRE year

I am Ready to BEAM in 2017 with my mother/sister/daughter/bestie! Click here! 

December 28 -30, 2016  Wednesday -Friday (includes 12/29/16 is the last New Moon of 2016!)

Check out what else the Desire Map inspired Retreat includes:

This 2 Day New Moon Virtual Retreat is SET to ignite your Desires on FIRE! Immerse yourself in what you want to FEEL & who you want to BE!

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Retreat includes: All NEW “Goals with Soul” Audios,

Workbook & Monthly Printables

Just in case you are traveling or would like to have your very own Retreat, you can still purchase the “Goals with Soul” 2017 Program here for $25 and if you’d like to share, its only $35 for you & your guest. Get yours here! 

 This famous quote by Joan of Arc became my mantra, allow it to be yours too.

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Love & Light ✨

The Age of She-ness

Lately, the resurgence of feminine empowerment has been both a personal, political & power conversation. The voices of women have been hushed for too long and now we are ready to rise to new heights. The way our society has targeted woman against woman behavior is one of the MAIN reasons our power is fragmented, our relationships with each other includes the women closet to us, our mother, our sister, our daughters.

In order to rise we must first heal. We must heal the delicate fabric of our emotional selves to emerge while also giving voice to the power within. The power within is subtle in the beginning but once the light is revealed, more is revealed.

With the New Year upon us, what better way & time to bring in a new experience of love, healing, prosperity & peace. My beloved daughter, Miana, will be joining me here in Mexico, for a VERY special BEAM in 2017 Virtual Retreat inspired by Desired Map! This offering is an AMAZING way for you to connect to your mother, daughter, sister or bestie to bring YOUR Light in the new way for the New Year. img_1995

BIG Blessings  Friday (My Anti-Black Friday 🙂

Now Thru 11/29/16  (New Moon in Sagittarius) receive as a BONUS for YOU & YOUR  Guest

  • Monthly “GLOW Gatherings” with Tonya &  Miana Melendez to support your 2017 “Goals with Soul”
  • Immediate access to our Facebook Community for Daily Support, Prayer & Love. 
  • Tarot & TruthBomb Reading (Recorded) 
  • Signed copy of my Amazon International Bestselling book, “Opening with Grace & Gratitude”
  • BONUS 1st Full Moon Ritual & Blessing (1/14/17)

  • Recordings of ENTIRE Retreat + MORE!

  • Gifts & Giveaways from our collaboration partners

  • Portion of Proceeds will be donated to She’s the First

Blessing Friday ONLY $222! Save Your Seat here NOW!

($199 +33 for your guest) rate now thru 11/29/16 

Price increases Tuesday, Nov. 29, 2016 11:59pm to $222 (guest rate $40)

Give the gift that will keep on giving the ENTIRE year

I am Ready to BEAM in 2017 with my mother/sister/daughter/bestie! Click here!  

December 28 -30, 2016  Wednesday -Friday (12/29/16 is the last New Moon of 2016!)

Check out what else the Desire Map inspired Retreat includes:

This 2 Day New Moon Virtual Retreat is SET to ignite your Desires on FIRE! Immerse yourself in what you want to FEEL & who you want to BE!

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Retreat includes: All NEW “Goals with Soul” Audios,

Workbook & Monthly Printables

Just in case you are traveling or would like to have your very own Retreat, you can still purchase the “Goals with Soul” 2017 Program here for $25 and if you’d like to share, its only $35 for you & your guest. Get yours here! 

The art of play 😃

As children we learn how to behave, our limits, barriers, likes & dislikes. this conditions us at a very early age the power of choice. It also teaches us how to play the game of life. Most of us have created our deepest emotional messages, triggers, fears & blocks by age 9. Soon after we begin  to crave acceptance & approval from our peers again creating another layer of conditioning. By now, we’ve forgotten what “play’ is because something else has given us value and the mixed message society depicts of “playing is fun yet frivolous” pushes us further from our natural instinct to move, create, be silly & present. 
Most people come to me for guidance and support at the end of “now what?” After years of trying to figure it out, Seekers come looking for answers after being lost for years. The sense of identity that is imposed upon at high school graduation to “be an adult” when we’ve barely have a F*cking idea how we got here, is insane.

Growing up quick does not teach responsibility, it teaches conformity like in grade school.  “Follow the rules”, “act like an adult” & “you should know by now” are laden with guilt & shame yet we are told to have it “figured out” by 18. When & where did you learn how to be an adult? Your parents? TV? Society? We are not taught to be adults we are just constantly practicing to become one.  Most of us are what I refer to as “Adulting” the practice to learning to be an behave like an adult. Dictionary.com defines adult as “having attained full size and strength”. i am Just beginning to understand what this means, how about you? 

The idea of play as an adult is saved for vacation but I am inviting you now to add a little bit of play into your day & week, watch what happens. Playing will come naturally, set aside time to fully enjoy and immerse yourself in something that lights your heart ablaze 🔥
Allow play to be the theme of your Thanksgiving (US) 🍽 festivities or weekend. Happy Playing! 

Talking to the Moon

Recently I had a dream I was talking to the Moon and she was sharing Divine insight, inspiration & illumination with me as I flew around the world chatting away while she did her thing.  unknown-41Within the same week, I had several people they had dreams of or with me serving, sharing and shining my Light in the world! I knew it was MORE than a coincidence, it was indeed a message from Spirit. I have been allowing my inner Voice to guide me in a deeper way as a commitment to my spiritual practice.

Just last week, I said NO more Tarot Readings so I could transition into Leadership & Mentoring yet Spirit & the Moon had something else in mind.

After meditating for guidance, it became CRYSTAL clear, this is a VERY POWERFUL & SPECIAL time to offer and provide insight with Tarot Coaching. The RAREST Full Moon of my LIFETIME is approaching and with it OPPORTUNITIES to CREATE, CONNECT & COMMUNE with your deepest Dreams, Desires & Destiny.  There hasn’t been a Moon like this in 68 YEARS! I can feel & hear from deep within and want to share this Insight & Inspiration with YOU so I am offering something I’ve NEVER offered before!

Over the last few months I’ve introduced “Psychic Scents Chakra Oil Blenimg_1757ds” and am happy to share the LATEST, “Psychic Scent Tarot Divining Oil Blend” a SUPER Special & Spiritual blend of Sandalwood, Patchouli, Frankinsense, Jasmine & MORE! This AMAZING & HIGH ENERGY Oil can be used as perfume, as a cleanser, as a grounding & more.

From NOW thru 11/14/16 I will be offering the “Desire Map Tarot” Session which includes a 60 min. Session & the “Tarot Chakra Meditation” I created for FREE to prepare your Mind, Body & Spirit for our Session. I am offering this LAST Chance opportunity to connect with me and the Tarot at the discounted price of ONLY $122!

I WANT My Session with Tonya NOW! 

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After this special time, I will no longer offer individual Tarot Sessions, as I will be teaching & writing, Tarot 2.0. More Details to come 🙂

AND get the EXCLUSIVE “Tarot Divining Oil” for ONLY $22!!

 

 

Spreading Miracles & Magic!

I am so grateful & honored to be a “featured student” in this year’s Miracle Share Conference! This conference has CHANGED my life 3 years in a ROW! MiracleShare.org – A Course in Miracles

In the Spirit of sharing the love, I’d love to gift YOU with a ticket to this year’s conference 🎉 Answer this Beloveds, “What would you do t14717184_10154802132272334_713560786589405155_noday if you had nothing to fear?”

Reply in the comments & you could WIN tix & a copy of “Opening with Grace & Gratitude” my Amazon International Best Selling Book!
I bless & thank you
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Take a peek for more,

https://www.facebook.com/tonya.melendez/videos/10154802048527334/

#BeAPrayer #SoulSelf #DesireMap #DreamBelieveManifest #ServeShareShine

Are you ready to create transformation and healing in your life?

Hey Beloveds!

We are in a time of great transformation for women – we’re feeling the pull toward healing, for ourselves and for other women – and we’re looking for a different way to live our lives.

Women are facing an epidemic of anxiety, chronic pain, chronic illness, depression, stress and overwhelm – things that stem from decades of repressing who we really are, suppressing our intuition and emotions, and living under the oppressive weight of “should” and “have-to” things on our endless to-do lists.

We’re fed up with the longstanding masculine energy patterns that have set the standard for how we live, and we’re ready to learn the ways that come more naturally to women.

Does this sound familiar to you?

There’s a movement happening for women; they’re stepping up everywhere ready to create transformation and healing – in their own lives and by helping others heal.

If you’re ready to:

  • Step into the truth of who you are and empower yourself to live your truth
  • Explore and learn the ways to live a healthy and joy-filled life
  • Connect with like-minded women on the same journey
  • End your anxiety and the endless “shoulds” that you feel guilty about
  • Create complete transformation in your life

…then I’d like to invite you to join me and 19 other spirited women who are sharing their wisdom about Powerful Practices for Living an Invincible Life on the Indomitable Women’s Wellness Summit.

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It’s a free virtual event that’s happening October 17-31, 2016. Each guest speaker gives an inspiring talk about different practices you can cultivate to create wellness and transformation in your life. When you register, you’ll receive:

  • 20 inspiring talks delivered right to your inbox (beginning October 17th)
  • Access to 2 round-table discussions with a panel of women where you can ask questions
  • Gifts and goodies from each of the guest speakers
  • Membership in the Divine Feminine Rising private Facebook group community

Claim your spot now!

Waking up.

I’ve been away from my”life” it feels like as I nurse myself back to my healthy & vibrant self. I had a bout of Dengue fever, similar to malaria! SCARY! I’ve never that ill in my life yet it gave me time to heal my addiction to social media, taking a break from what I used  think  would make or break my business. Marketing what I do and how I do has become a full time job, stealing from me the time to do what I want to do, which is write, teach & mentor. In my healing time, I’ve put my self on a “elimination diet”, removal of anything that does not support what I want to do. I feel a new person, like I woke up.

My focus has changed, I have changed yet my mission remains the same, to be of Service using my gifts as an intuitive spiritual teacher & healer. I am going beyond my familiar and stepping into a Spiritual Leadership Mentor by creating “She Lives To Serve” Mastermind. Combining my divine feminine spiritual coaching with inspired leadership in entrepreneurship. I will be sharing more soon. Take a peek at the video below for some announcements & updates.

Love & Light,

Tonya

“Desires, Dreams & Destiny”

What does your heart say? What do YOU really want? Are you ready to increase your intuition while developing a committed spiritual practice?

When I first read “The Desire Map” I immediately began seeing changes within myself & the way I viewed the world. Once I got in touch with what I “really wanted to feel” I allowed myself to experience child like bliss, gratitude, and a overflow of love towards my self. It was like a magic veil had been lifted & I was able to see the life I really wanted.

The biggest change I made was I quit drinking cold turkey. Over that last year I have using Desire Map and Tarot and have developed a “Desire Map” Spread that allows you to connect deeper to you Desires while gaining insight into your Dreams & Destiny.

For more info & Sign up, click here! 

 

Desire Map with Tarot NOW!