Ready-ing.

August 11, 2016August 11, 2016 / Tonya Melendez Gonzalez / Leave a comment

Oftentimes in life we prepare for things, a new job, school, or physical exercise as being prepared puts you in the mind set of accepting something new. How then does one prepare for life’s adventure’s, experiences, and situations. As a Spiritual Psychic-Medium, I understand the wanting to know and be prepared for what life will bring yet free will gives the opportunity for intuitive nudges to steer you in the direction of your dreams or a lesson. What I have come to understand is that everything does happen for a reason because God did not create mistakes, nothing is by chance in fact everything is guided to take you where you need to be based on your choice.

As the moon grows full and peaks tomorrow, allow yourself to see what choices you are making in effort to be “ready” for life’s next thing or are you riding the wave of listening and trusting your intuition. What are you focusing on right now? Are you preparing for the best for yourself or worrying with “how”. Life opens up when you do, so why not let it happen? Use this powerful Virgo Full moon to remind yourself that “fate follows the fearless” and choose to leap before you look. You never know what you are really ready for until its time for it to happen.

The need to know…

August 11, 2016August 11, 2016 / Tonya Melendez Gonzalez / 1 Comment

We all have something that we are afraid of, for me its deep water which comes from a remembrance of drowning in a past life. Yet that is not the kind of the something I am talking about now. Many of us have fears of not being able to do something, have something or be something because we cannot see beyond what others have told us is impossible, not worth it, or can have. Who are we NOT to have the life we dream of? Who says we cannot have, be, and do what we dream to do? It has taken years for me to fully understand this concept because my family, society, past experiences, and allowing other factors to determine my vision blocked this truth and my fear made it true in my mind. Yet I have seen the light and have allowed myself to listen with the wisdom of my heart instead of the confinement of my mind.

Every great athlete has always said they see themselves winning long before they ever take a shot. I am asking you to take a shot now- where is your focus, what is the shot you long to make? My mentor, teacher, and friend Rev. Michael Bernard Beckwith says “You can start with nothing, and out of nothing, and out of no way, a way will be made.” BELIEVE IT!!!

We can only have a dream manifest we when we ALLOW it beloved. Let go of the need to know the outcome, let go of the restricting past, and let go of what others think, you deserve your dreams that is why the Universe planted them within you. It is not by accident you want to paint, write, draw, sing, create, and SHARE this is what we they are within us to EXPRESS. Now it the the time, no more waiting. Believe in YOU and the universe will answer. Begin with “I AM” Claim your gifts, they are inside you waiting to serve, shine & share!

Into the next life..

August 11, 2016August 11, 2016 / Tonya Melendez Gonzalez / Leave a comment

Recently I read something recently that shifted me because it is what I have been experiencing. As a young woman, single mother & teacher, I longed to fit in and belong to society – its ways, its “laws” & conformity. The fear of not living up to the expectations, the failure others expected, and the dependency of my daughter on me kept me closed, afraid, and silent.

Today, I cannot recognize that person, she is within me and taught me many lessons yet I am the woman I dreamt of being. Life is to be lived through experience not only lessons, debts, and jobs, I learned a long time ago that there is no value in the experiences I’ve had that money can buy. My life is beyond material wealth, it is filled with laughter, grace, loss, freedom, independence, peace, gratitude, passion, sensuality, creativity, faith & LOTS of love – for myself, everyone & the world. The people, the culture, the food, the sights – ALL of it is within me now and goes with me where ever I am and this is something no one can take from me.

When it is my turn to go back into Spirit form, I will have these moments to take into the next life. Beloved, how are you living? What dreams are within you wanting freedom to express, where do YOU want to go?

I get it. Let’s chat, figure it out together & set you on your course of self discovery.

Answered prayers

August 11, 2016August 11, 2016 / Tonya Melendez Gonzalez / Leave a comment

Prayer is a part of my daily life not only as a spiritual practice, but as a way of life. Understanding the meaning, purpose, and practice of praying has opened, healed, and transformed me because it allows me to commune with my inner wisdom. The God of my understanding has given me opportunities to become the person, woman, teacher, healer, and writer that is within.

Everyday i allow myself to learn something new as a part of my evolution. One of the most important is understanding the inner guidance prayer provides. It is in the willingness new ideas, opportunities, and experiences present themselves as answered prayers. We are upon a new beginning with the Solar eclipse, super new moon, Spring equinox as it ushers in the freshness of newness that comes with this time before Easter. Now is the time to decide what needs to be let go, be cleared, cleaned, and revived. Be gentle with yourself now and set intentions knowing your answered prayer awaits. Set it, trust in it, and set it free – the Universe will do the rest so have faith your dreams & prayers deserved to be made manifest.