The art of play đŸ˜ƒ

As children we learn how to behave, our limits, barriers, likes & dislikes. this conditions us at a very early age the power of choice. It also teaches us how to play the game of life. Most of us have created our deepest emotional messages, triggers, fears & blocks by age 9. Soon after we begin  to crave acceptance & approval from our peers again creating another layer of conditioning. By now, we’ve forgotten what “play’ is because something else has given us value and the mixed message society depicts of “playing is fun yet frivolous” pushes us further from our natural instinct to move, create, be silly & present. 
Most people come to me for guidance and support at the end of “now what?” After years of trying to figure it out, Seekers come looking for answers after being lost for years. The sense of identity that is imposed upon at high school graduation to “be an adult” when we’ve barely have a F*cking idea how we got here, is insane.

Growing up quick does not teach responsibility, it teaches conformity like in grade school.  “Follow the rules”, “act like an adult” & “you should know by now” are laden with guilt & shame yet we are told to have it “figured out” by 18. When & where did you learn how to be an adult? Your parents? TV? Society? We are not taught to be adults we are just constantly practicing to become one.  Most of us are what I refer to as “Adulting” the practice to learning to be an behave like an adult. defines adult as “having attained full size and strength”. i am Just beginning to understand what this means, how about you? 

The idea of play as an adult is saved for vacation but I am inviting you now to add a little bit of play into your day & week, watch what happens. Playing will come naturally, set aside time to fully enjoy and immerse yourself in something that lights your heart ablaze 🔥
Allow play to be the theme of your Thanksgiving (US) 🍽 festivities or weekend. Happy Playing! 

Talking to the Moon

Recently I had a dream I was talking to the Moon and she was sharing Divine insight, inspiration & illumination with me as I flew around the world chatting away while she did her thing.  unknown-41Within the same week, I had several people they had dreams of or with me serving, sharing and shining my Light in the world! I knew it was MORE than a coincidence, it was indeed a message from Spirit. I have been allowing my inner Voice to guide me in a deeper way as a commitment to my spiritual practice.

Just last week, I said NO more Tarot Readings so I could transition into Leadership & Mentoring yet Spirit & the Moon had something else in mind.

After meditating for guidance, it became CRYSTAL clear, this is a VERY POWERFUL & SPECIAL time to offer and provide insight with Tarot Coaching. The RAREST Full Moon of my LIFETIME is approaching and with it OPPORTUNITIES to CREATE, CONNECT & COMMUNE with your deepest Dreams, Desires & Destiny.  There hasn’t been a Moon like this in 68 YEARS! I can feel & hear from deep within and want to share this Insight & Inspiration with YOU so I am offering something I’ve NEVER offered before!

Over the last few months I’ve introduced “Psychic Scents Chakra Oil Blenimg_1757ds” and am happy to share the LATEST, “Psychic Scent Tarot Divining Oil Blend” a SUPER Special & Spiritual blend of Sandalwood, Patchouli, Frankinsense, Jasmine & MORE! This AMAZING & HIGH ENERGY Oil can be used as perfume, as a cleanser, as a grounding & more.

From NOW thru 11/14/16 I will be offering the “Desire Map Tarot” Session which includes a 60 min. Session & the “Tarot Chakra Meditation” I created for FREE to prepare your Mind, Body & Spirit for our Session. I am offering this LAST Chance opportunity to connect with me and the Tarot at the discounted price of ONLY $122!

I WANT My Session with Tonya NOW! 


After this special time, I will no longer offer individual Tarot Sessions, as I will be teaching & writing, Tarot 2.0. More Details to come 🙂

AND get the EXCLUSIVE “Tarot Divining Oil” for ONLY $22!!



Spreading Miracles & Magic!

I am so grateful & honored to be a “featured student” in this year’s Miracle Share Conference! This conference has CHANGED my life 3 years in a ROW! – A Course in Miracles

In the Spirit of sharing the love, I’d love to gift YOU with a ticket to this year’s conference 🎉 Answer this Beloveds, “What would you do t14717184_10154802132272334_713560786589405155_noday if you had nothing to fear?”

Reply in the comments & you could WIN tix & a copy of “Opening with Grace & Gratitude” my Amazon International Best Selling Book!
I bless & thank you

Take a peek for more,

#BeAPrayer #SoulSelf #DesireMap #DreamBelieveManifest #ServeShareShine

Are you ready to create transformation and healing in your life?

Hey Beloveds!

We are in a time of great transformation for women – we’re feeling the pull toward healing, for ourselves and for other women – and we’re looking for a different way to live our lives.

Women are facing an epidemic of anxiety, chronic pain, chronic illness, depression, stress and overwhelm – things that stem from decades of repressing who we really are, suppressing our intuition and emotions, and living under the oppressive weight of “should” and “have-to” things on our endless to-do lists.

We’re fed up with the longstanding masculine energy patterns that have set the standard for how we live, and we’re ready to learn the ways that come more naturally to women.

Does this sound familiar to you?

There’s a movement happening for women; they’re stepping up everywhere ready to create transformation and healing – in their own lives and by helping others heal.

If you’re ready to:

  • Step into the truth of who you are and empower yourself to live your truth
  • Explore and learn the ways to live a healthy and joy-filled life
  • Connect with like-minded women on the same journey
  • End your anxiety and the endless “shoulds” that you feel guilty about
  • Create complete transformation in your life

…then I’d like to invite you to join me and 19 other spirited women who are sharing their wisdom about Powerful Practices for Living an Invincible Life on the Indomitable Women’s Wellness Summit.


It’s a free virtual event that’s happening October 17-31, 2016. Each guest speaker gives an inspiring talk about different practices you can cultivate to create wellness and transformation in your life. When you register, you’ll receive:

  • 20 inspiring talks delivered right to your inbox (beginning October 17th)
  • Access to 2 round-table discussions with a panel of women where you can ask questions
  • Gifts and goodies from each of the guest speakers
  • Membership in the Divine Feminine Rising private Facebook group community

Claim your spot now!

Waking up.

I’ve been away from my”life” it feels like as I nurse myself back to my healthy & vibrant self. I had a bout of Dengue fever, similar to malaria! SCARY! I’ve never that ill in my life yet it gave me time to heal my addiction to social media, taking a break from what I used  think  would make or break my business. Marketing what I do and how I do has become a full time job, stealing from me the time to do what I want to do, which is write, teach & mentor. In my healing time, I’ve put my self on a “elimination diet”, removal of anything that does not support what I want to do. I feel a new person, like I woke up.

My focus has changed, I have changed yet my mission remains the same, to be of Service using my gifts as an intuitive spiritual teacher & healer. I am going beyond my familiar and stepping into a Spiritual Leadership Mentor by creating “She Lives To Serve” Mastermind. Combining my divine feminine spiritual coaching with inspired leadership in entrepreneurship. I will be sharing more soon. Take a peek at the video below for some announcements & updates.

Love & Light,


“Desires, Dreams & Destiny”

What does your heart say? What do YOU really want? Are you ready to increase your intuition while developing a committed spiritual practice?

When I first read “The Desire Map” I immediately began seeing changes within myself & the way I viewed the world. Once I got in touch with what I “really wanted to feel” I allowed myself to experience child like bliss, gratitude, and a overflow of love towards my self. It was like a magic veil had been lifted & I was able to see the life I really wanted.

The biggest change I made was I quit drinking cold turkey. Over that last year I have using Desire Map and Tarot and have developed a “Desire Map” Spread that allows you to connect deeper to you Desires while gaining insight into your Dreams & Destiny.

For more info & Sign up, click here! 


Desire Map with Tarot NOW! 

“We all have a Wonder Woman within.”

“We all have a Wonder Woman within.” Tonyaism

When I was studying in college as a Women’s Studies minor I remember thinking, one day this will mean something. What is now offered as a major in universities around the world was ONLY offered as a minor when I was an undergrad. Women’s studies wasn’t a “thing” like it is now. Today, more women are small business owners and entrepreneurs than ever before in history. More and more women are reclaiming their personal power as well as their financial, livelihoods & relationships. The age of the “new ” modern women is emerging as women embrace their sexual ideimg_1777ntities & personal power.

Do you know your “Sacred She’?
We’ve been told her power is dangerous, our  femininity is dangerous, that WE are dangerous. We have been conditioned to compete with our sisters, to seek constant approval of our looks, body and ideas. There is  disconnection to the “Sacred She” within each of us.


We are currently in a time of great change, with the possibility of having the 1st female President of the United States. We can change the world, if we align with our “Sacred She” to heal the years of misuse, distrust and pain, the time is NOW!

Book Your Sacred She Sessions Here!

The “Sacred She – LifeScription” Program will provide YOU all you need to discover & rebirth the Sacred She within in. This program includes more than the regular LifeScription, we will explore the Sacred Yoni, SoulSelf & MORE.

The LifeScription™  Program are 3 individual one on one sessions over the course of 4 weeks to Deal, Heal & Reveal YOU the the life you want & deserve.

1) ChakraScription – This Session will allow you to Recenter & “Deal” with imbalances, blockages & leaks. 60 min.

2) Tarot Coaching – What is wanting to “Reveal” itself in your life? This Session will provide guidance, insight & inspiration for what’s ahead. 45 min.

3) Spiritual Mind Treatment – Personalized Healing Session 60 min.

Time to Heal Your Sacred She Book NOW!

“Do what you love, the blessings will follow.”

We live in a world where we have access to everything. The love of money taking never giving. Yet we continue to recycle & replenish ourselves. A move, a marriage, a divorce, a home, a loss. Something aligns us to continue, to move forward. The constant in all and EVERYTHING is YOU, not your mind, not your body, but your Spirit that inspires you to “against all odds” keep going. Stuckness, hurtness & brokenness all come from feeling separated from that inspiration.

The thing is, it woke you up this morning. It’s deepest desire is that you continue, that you progress, that you are happy.

Being broken-hearted, in lack & disappointed is where fear loves to troll. To align with your Spirit is simple recognize & realize, you alone can do nothing because if you could, you would have by now.

Allow Spirit to guide, support & heal you. Perhaps a “LifeScription” is just what you have been asking for.

Book Your LifeScription Here!


“Let go of all trivial things that churn and bubble on the surface of your mind, and reach down and below them to the the Kingdom of Heaven.”

#BeAPrayer #SoulSelf #DesireMap #DreamBelieveManifest #ServeShareShine #BestSeller #GratitudeandGrace

3 Ways to Use Tarot to Heal Your Life

“Today, we see Tarot as a sort of path, a way to personal growth through understanding of ourselves and life.” Rachael Pollack

The 78 cards that make the Tarot come with many stories of magic & mystery. Like the fact the deck is numerological set at 7. The 78th card represents us as the ‘0’ Fool, a new beginning & way is set before us. Like the seasons, months of the the year & zodiac cycle, Tarot’s wisdom is constantly evolving to those willing to look beyond the fortune telling and delve into its alchemy.

Originally Published in Huffington Post, continue reading here:

 3 Ways To Use Tarot to Heal Your Life


“Do what you love, the blessings will follow.”

We live our lives from the outside in instead of the inside out.  Thinking soon as I have everything I need, THEN,  I can work on my healing my _______.

This confusion has created illness, disease, social injustices, unhealthy weight gain & violence. The age we live in has the most STUFF ever! I imagine the simplicity of what our ancient ancestors used to live on while happy, community centered & without money. We can’t go backward to move forward, but we can provide ourselves support & healing to become the person we most want to be.

“Dream. Believe. Manifest. Mastermind ”  is just what you are looking for if:

  1. You are done with the struggle.
  2. You are done being “a little” overweight
  3. You are done being broke.
  4. You are done being single.
  5. You are done________

This isn’t just a study group or a lesson or a book club or a community. It is ALL that and more. It is your haven, your spiritual center, your support group, your Mentor, your Healer, your Teacher & MORE Allow me the opportunity to support you as you learn to know your SoulSelf.


In this Weekly gathering we will discuss our current spiritual book, dive into life’s learning lessons with spiritual guidance & discuss a life area of healing. This is a One of a Kind offering as I blend years of wisdom as a Spiritual Teacher, Psychic Medium, Minister & Healer to you. I know you want to heal. I know you see a different life for yourself, allow my to get you there.

This Weekly Mastermind via TBA Livestream

(FreeconferenceCall. com or Uberconference)

When: Beginning Sept. 22, 2016

Thurdays @7:30pm CST 70 min.


Sign up below, click link to subscribe Weekly of Monthly

Cost: Weekly $7.77 

Per Month  $31.00

When you sign you NOW, your price is locked in for 2 months!

(Prices increase 9/16/16 to $9.99 weekly, $40 per month)  


To get on the waiting list & be added to our Facebook Group “Spirit Squad”

email me


“Do What You Love, the Blessings Will Follow!”


The Importance of Following Your Intuition

Do you ever pause long enough to listen to your intuition, your inner guidance system? With so much coming at us in every direction, it’s difficult to pay attention to everything at once, including the silent messages we receive from deep within.


Today I’m speaking with Intuitive Spiritual Healer, Tonya Melendez. In the this podcast, you’ll learn:

  • What your intuition is
  • Why your intuition is important in your life choices
  • How intuition serves you

Check out the interview here

7 Day Vision Quest Challenge

Sign up here for the 

7 Day VisionQuest Challenge


What’s Your Vision Beloved 👀  Do you know? img_1717-1

We are in an very powerful transformational time of personal healing, evolution & intuitive guidance. The omnipotent energetic doorway of tomorrow’s numerological 9/9/2016 (9) is an ending of something so what you Desire can begin 💝

All Quests begin with a Vision 👁  Are You ready?

Join the 7Day Vision Quest Challenge! We begin on 9/9/9 with “Clean Your Mind”. As the Moon grows Full and we feel the affects of its Lunar eclipse we will embark on an adventure into discovering YOU!

Let’s set your Desires on Fire 🔥 as we “Dream. Believe. Manifest.”

Join our Miracle Club Facebook Community here


Opening with Gratitude & Grace

It has been a few weeks now since my book became an Amazon International Bestseller! My mind still can’t seem to wrap around the fact that not only am published author, in a printed book, being placed in libraries & given as gifts, I am an International Bestselling author. My childhood dream come TRUE! Since I fell in love with books and the library when I was about 9-10 years old, this has been my dream. I thought after being a single mother and all the lessons life taught me that this dream seemed far off. I believed I would self publish a “little” book and that would satisfy my Writer spirit, it did not.

I never gave up, even after being a librarian, European TV Star & #3 Psychic in the World, my DESIRE to write sparkled even under the years of neglect.  Once I said yes, I am a Writer, the spark turned into a flame & I decided I had to do this NOW! I wrote the damn story, then I wrote for the Huffington Post & now I am a bestselling author. I did not look the way I thought, but I am JUST getting started.

My publisher, Linda Joy, has made this such an AMAZING experience, I can ONLY move onward & upward. Recently, Linda & I chatted about the journey to “Opening with Grace & Gratitude”, via Skype and REALLY got deep about what got me to and through this book with her. We laughed, we cried and we fell more in sistership than EVER! I am so grateful & honored to work with Linda and her idea of collaborative heart-centered business model.

It is with pleasure & joy I can share this video with you on Thursday, Sept. 8th, 2016.

I personally invite you to watch, listen & heal. I cannot wait for you to see how my story, “Naked in Public” was born!! BONUS!! The link below is also for you to access some AMAZING Gifts!

Click here to sign up, receive your gifts & watch my video along with 37 other Brave, Inspired & Visionary women